My sincerest condolences to Phyllis' family. Perhaps the scripture at Revelation 21:4 will give you some measure of comfort. "And he (God) will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away." May the one "who imparts power" continue to strengthen your family as you look forward to the time when death will be no more on the earth. (Phil. 4:13)